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What do you think will happen? Me and my EX back together? Drinking and Drug abuse? Can people change?

xx asked:

This is the second time we broke up. We both have our own problems to figure out, me especially (drugs n alcohol).

I told her that I wanted to change for her, but she wants me to change for myself, and after careful thinking that is what I want to do. I told her this tonight and that I was working on myself and hopefully we can both solve our problems.

I told her when I felt like I was different I would call her so I could see her. She said “Well that better not be too soon, otherwise I’m not going to answer.” I agree that we both need our space and to work on ourselves by ourselves.

I told her that I really care about her and that I’ll miss her a lot. She replied the same to me.

However, the night before we had a conversation where she said she wasnt going to take me back right away (if ever?) And she talked about “being friends.”

When is “too soon” to talk to her (So far, I’ve gone 1 day without drinking/drug use)? Are we going to get back together or does she just want to be friends when we see each other after we have worked out our problems?

WHAT DO YOU THINK

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Written by Admin on September 15th, 2009 with 6 comments.
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#1. September 18th, 2009, at 1:28 PM.

i don’t see it working out.

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#2. September 21st, 2009, at 4:37 AM.

wow, you actually have money to waste on drugs and alcohol?

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#3. September 23rd, 2009, at 5:50 AM.

To me it sounds like you both need some time by yourselves to get your live together. Your not good material for any type of relationship at this time and would only bring the other person down with you.

Build yourself up first and get your live on tract. Then find that special person and have a live with a partner in it, not a person in it with you.

It is so much more fun with a partner.

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#4. September 24th, 2009, at 2:31 PM.

People can change if and when they want to. You and the woman may never get back together and that could be something that is good.

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#5. September 26th, 2009, at 8:53 PM.

I know it’s easier said then done, but for both of your sakes, just focus on yourself right now and let her do the same. trust me I’ve been there (with the drugs and alcohol). My husband and I split up and I don’t believe there is any hope for us anymore. But I left to focus on getting clean and I’ve been successful! I’ve been clean since the end of September!! I wouldn’t have been able to do it if I had the added stress of worrying about him. It’s really too soon to say what’s going to happen to your relationship. At the moment, that shouldn’t be a concern of yours! If it’s meant to be, it will be. Good luck!!

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#6. September 28th, 2009, at 6:54 PM.

My ex and I went threw all this. He is a functional alcoholic drug addict.We have been doing this same dance for so many years! So now we came to a compromise. I live in 25 minutes away,on the water in a small place of my own. We see each other on weekends. He is not allowed to do drugs over here, but he can drink. We do this because we love each other and its the only way! We take long weekends on our Harley’s in the summer. We don’t date other people.

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